Who are you? Coaching for life
1.JFK
John Kennedy
"A person does what they must..in spite of personal consequences,
in spite of obstacles and dangers and pressures..and that is the basis of human
morality."
What is it that drives you? what are your principles? identify: is it
responses from people, is it self
satisfaction?
2.Theodore
Roosevelt
"Big Jobs usually go to people who outgrow the little
small ones"
Where are you in your life? achievements? Skills? what is
your next step, to hold on to the status
quo or to progress, how do you see it?
know how big your stride is do not over stretch!!
3.George
Washington
"Few people have the virtue to withstand the highest
bidder"
A society is around you. In A Spectrum the community is with you, .surround yourself with
people who you trust and they value you. When I was running a small group in
New Addington, local people came to know
us. One day I heard a couple of men
talking about me saying "He is their minder" In that moment I knew we were accepted as
part of the area
4.Machiavelli
a political philospher italian 15th c
"It is not titles that make people illustrious. but
people who make titles illustrious"
strong realistic goals, Autism /Aspergers never let a title restrict
,confine you or define you. A title is only what you make it. society needs to
fit into your life as you are a part of Society There is a film called the Texan
and there are many people who live in Texas. This world is full of gangs yet
the krays made the name their own. aspire to change the world
5.Plato
"When men speak ill of thee, live so as nobody may believe
them"
All ways look on the bright side of life.
trust someone, Criticisms come from all directions in life, your spouse, your children, colleagues,
friends, neighbours and even enemies, Try to put all things into context, speak
about concerns with neutral people but dont demand answers, it is better to dismiss ill will and maintain
your own thought out convictions. Is there such a thing as a frictionless
relationship?
6.Napoleon
"There is one kind of robber whom the law does not
strike at, and who steals what is most precious to people: TIME."
structure your days
do not let the time go by as you procrastinate about maybe small things"
don't sweat the small things" Life
is short and unpredictable and you only have a small window of opportunity. be
decisive, plan, review and progress. You have a right to be in
this world. When I was running a small community group in New Addington, UK, local people came to know us. One day I heard a couple of men talking about me saying
"He is their minder" In that
moment I knew we were accepted as part of the area.
7. Bob Dylan
"A person is a success if they gets up in the morning
and goes to bed at night and in between does what they want to do."
Live your dream. You have to do what makes you happy, we all know this, also you must bare in mind consequences of
your actions will you still be happy if your action causes another to be
unhappy. no need to be a people pleaser. there is nothing better in life than
to wake up and know you are going to do or be involved with something that you
love doing.
NOW Fill in the gaps with your answers
1.What drives you? (know yourself)..............
2.Where are you in life?( Life Plan) ............................
3. what will make you confident to run your own race?(know
your friends).................
4.give yourself a positive title and stick to it (strong realistic
goals).........
5. Name someone who gives you reassurance, when others doubt
you ( trusted Guide ).................
6.What will you do when you don't know what to do?
(structure).................
7. what is your greatest desire?(live your dream)............................
LIVE YOUR LIFE - LOVE YOUR LIFE